

We are a family of probashi bangalis – the diaspora. Zealously we guard the Bengali culture inherited from our grandparents and great-grandparents who were among the last of the generations that had lived upon that red earth of Bengal. Even as I tucked into a plate of fish and vegetable stew, I listened with awe to the tales of a little girl who used the loose weave of the end of her sari to fish for shrimps amongst the paddy standing knee deep in the flooded field.
She was my grandmother, who had been forced by my grandfather’s British employers to move to Delhi with her brood of children. India, for her, was made up of three distinct sets of people – to Bengal’s north lived the Punjabis and to the south the Madrasis. She spoke no other language and through sheer goodwill and persistence had succeeded in teaching the gardener and the vegetable vendor Bengali. The fishmongers were never a problem – for they all spoke near fluent Bengali.
Our horizons were widening. Reluctantly the two of us had acknowledged that our Kashmiri neighbours were not Punjabis and that one could not get away by labelling those that could not be immediately typecast as Hindustanis. Were we Hindustanis? No. My six-year-old brain firmly denied it. Well then, Indian? There I was ready to concede.
‘If you lifted your aanchal quickly enough you were sure to catch a handful.’ She waved her handheld fan over my food shooing the flies away. The story had a cooling effect…wading through the water…and the green that stretched for miles.
Shubho Poila Baisakh...On this auspicious occasion of the first day of the month of Baisakh let me wish you a very Bengali shubho noboborsho and a happy new year. The Tamils are going home for Bishu.Punjab is dancing to the tunes of the Bhangra while celebrating Baisakhi. India is looking forward to a new year. But Bengalis all over the world are looking for the next celebration...the twenty fifth of Baisakh on 8 May 2008...the birth anniversary of the nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore.